Whatever the reason, it's certainly not because it's not happening.īut why should we have such illusions about marriage anyway? There are many things spouses choose to keep secret, and homosexuality is just one of them.
Perhaps they aren't as ready to share their hurt. (You would not think a lot of men, confronted with a log of their hours spent on, succeed in convincing their wives that this is a common, heterosexual male way to spend an afternoon, but apparently they do.) There aren't as many websites for men left by gay wives. The top warning signs? Possession of homosexual pornography and evidence of visits to homosexual porn websites. A quick browse on the internet will reveal plenty of websites with names such as My Husband Is Gay and Gay Husbands/Straight Wives, with checklists for worried wives.
I 'm not sure why we should be shocked when someone ends a marriage and comes out of the closet.
